Life delivers complexity. Growing older together leaves many situations open-ended. People sin against us and we sin against each other. Things don’t resolve. We crave closure, sometimes to point of distraction—even idolatry. Healthy marriages understand that closure, at least in this life, is overrated. We gain the kind of closure that transforms by looking not to the present, but to the beauty of the past (at the cross) and to the hope of the future (the new heavens and new earth).
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View all postsDave Harvey (D. Min – Westminster Theological Seminary) serves as the president of Great Commission Collective, a church planting ministry in the US and abroad. In his 33 years of pastoring and ministry, Dave was president of Sojourn Network, and oversaw church planting, church care & international outreach for Sovereign Grace Churches. He is also the founder of AmICalled.com and serves on the board for the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF). Dave was general editor for the Sojourn Network ‘How-To’ series and contributes regularly at The Gospel Coalition, Desiring God, and For the Church. Dave is the author of When Sinners Say I Do, I STILL DO! Growing Closer and Stronger Through Life’s Defining Moments, Stronger Together: Seven Partnership Virtues and the Vices that Subvert Them, and more. Married for over 4 decades, Dave and Kimm live in southwest Florida.
